Learn English – Informal word for someone who likes to keep to themselves

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I always thought that anti-social describes someone who keeps to themselves. But according to Wikipedia, anti-social is not the right word. What, then, is the correct word to describe someone who prefers to keep to themselves, avoids parties and get-togethers? I'm not looking for the absolutely precise medical term for a mental illness (because such behavior may not in fact be an illness), just an informal word.

Example:
– Where is John? Is he going out with us for dinner?
– Nah, he's probably watching Netflix in his room. He tends to be [ ].

Addendum
When most people say anti-social in an informal context, are just referring to someone keeping to themselves, or are they in fact suggesting their conscience is in question (which is a symptom of the Antisocial Personality Disorder)?

Best Answer

Loner

Merriam Webster's definition of loner:

loner, noun | lon·er | \ˈlō-nər\ : one that avoids others; especially : individualist


Personally, I have found that anti-social, while sounding technical, is used far more in the sense of being a loner.

Why doesn't my son want to play ball with the other kids? He's so anti-social. What will I ever do?