I have a friend who I will call Sammy in my friend group and she always crushes on and goes after whoever my other friends like. She will secretly go after them and tell everyone else she likes them but not tell the friend who also likes them. And if Sammy is confronted she will deny it. Also if the person who liked the guy to begin with loses interest or gives up hope of being with him Sammy will drop him too. I really want to know if there is a word or condition for this.
Learn English – it called when someone only wants something that is highly desired by someone else
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Best Answer
If you'll be pleased with a scientific term for this (meaning, not something you'd readily say to someone unless you cared to explain it):
Mimetic Desire
As the Scientific American article opens, it describes this situation perfectly:
I'd really recommend reading the full article if you care to get more informed about the way your own brain works, because we're all susceptible to this impulse.