I've heard of the general expression of "let's not compare whose penis is larger" and thought it was a common expression but a quick search on the internet yields no results…
The underlying meaning of this "supposed" idiom points to the wasted time when two parties meet and instead of solving the problem, the two parties continually compare whose whatever is bigger. Eventually, one party might give up and say this idiom pointing to the idea that instead of stroking each others' egos, they could forego their differences and their pride to actually work together to solve a problem.
I recently searched it up wondering if there was a more polite idiom to use, but I could not find an idiom of similar meaning.
My questions are therefore:
- Am I imagining this idiom up out of my personal experiences or is there a related idiom similar in meaning that I have unintentionally paraphrased?
- If this idiom, God forbid, does actually exist; is there perhaps a more polite version of this idiom?
Many thanks for your time!
Best Answer
Credit to user576 for their comment.
I've searched the web for "let's not compare whose penis is larger" and got no results, which led me to believe it's not really idiomatic. If you cut it down to "whose penis is larger" you get 717 results, compared to almost 1400 if you search for "whose penis is bigger", which really sounds more natural.
There is, however, a vulgar equivalent to "let's not compare whose penis is bigger", namely, "let's stop this pissing contest".
Your second question is about a less vulgar way to phrase the same idea. I couldn't find an idiom for it and I therefore suggest "Let's stop this pointless, meaningless or purposeless discussion".