Learn English – What does it mean “It is hard to get by just upon a smile”

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I am listening to a song by Joanna Wang: "Wild World"

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZnlQT1I5K9s

It is originally by Cat Stevens, and some lyrics are near the end of this question. I wonder what the following phrase means:

It is hard to get by just upon a smile

Does it mean it is difficult to survive in this world just because she shows a nice smile? (or that she can get by using a smile, but probably only because there are many guys who will cater to her smile and use her, and dump her when they get tired of her, so she can't survive that way?) What does the phrase mean?

Now that I've lost everything to you
You say you wanna start something new
And it's breakin' my heart you're leavin'
Baby, I'm grievin'
But if you wanna leave, take good care
I hope you have a lot of nice things to wear
But then a lot of nice things turn bad out there

Oh, baby, baby, it's a wild world
It's hard to get by just upon a smile
Oh, baby, baby, it's a wild world
I'll always remember you like a child, girl

You know I've seen a lot of what the world can do
And it's breakin' my heart in two
Because I never wanna see you a sad girl
Don't be a bad girl
But if you wanna leave, take good care
I hope you make a lot of nice friends out there
But just remember there's a lot of bad and beware

A side note is that this song was written in 1971… I listened to it for probably two hundred times over the years, but never knew or was aware what the lyrics meant, probably because I am not a native speaker of English. I told my mom several years ago that more and more I found the world to be a jungle and full of just animals — tigers, lions, wolves, all waiting to eat the sheeps, deer, and rabbits, but my mom refuted right away "how can it be? human has civilization. it cannot be a jungle." But I found it surprising that back in 1971, the songs already said what it was "It is a wild world… I have seen a lot what the world can do… I hope you make a lot of nice friends out there. But just remember there's a lot of bad and beware."

Best Answer

In the context of the lyrics I interpret it as meaning that she shouldn't be too naive and think that just being nice (smiling to people) will mean people won't try and use her. She has to be aware that other people are not always good and should look after herself because "there's a lot of bad" out there.

Of course song lyrics can often be interpreted in different ways so other people may disagree with me on this.

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