I like to start on a large island of my own and not make contact until I am some way up the tech tree, preferably with an advantage.
In previous CIVs, I would generate the map, take a peek and discard until I found a good one.
I have done this 30+ times and there is always either an AI player on the same landmass, or is is too small. This despite only having 4 opponents on a huge map.
Does anyone else have similar playing style? How do yo choose your start options?
Best Answer
Modding Option
If modding is your thing this could be a solution for you. There's a setting in the GlobalParameters.xml called START_DISTANCE_MAJOR_CIVILIZATION which is default set to 9. Meaning that civilizations cannot be closer than 9 tiles away from each other at the start of the game (maybe 8, I'm not sure if it's an inclusive/exclusive 9).
Existing Mod
There is a mod (here) that boosts the start distance between starting civilizations from 9 to 16.
Note that I am not the creator of this mod nor do I know the owner, I simply searched for it on the steam workshop.