As part of the Hearthfire DLC, you are able to select a steward to help manage your new house(s). There are 34 followers to choose from.
Among these are some important followers from the main questline. Many of the NPCs listed are eligible bachelors/bachelorettes. Each Housecarl (both from the main game, and Hearthfire) is available as well.
With so many options, and only a maximum of three steward positions to fill, I'm left wondering if there's any particular reason I should choose one over the others. This breaks down to a few questions:
- Are there any particular disadvantages to turning a follower into a steward?
- For example, will they no longer follow or train you?
- Does it render potential marriage candidates ineligible?
- Do any of the eligible candidates bring something special to the position?
- Particularly, anything they would not normally do for you as a follower.
- Does it really matter at all who I choose?
- Would I be just as well off assigning my Housecarls, as I would anyone else?
Best Answer
None of the characters make a "better" steward; they all behave exactly the same in that role. They also still work as followers: you can still ask them to follow you again, marry them, etc.
The only thing that changes when you make a follower a steward is where they hang out when they stop following you. Like the housecarl for the appropriate hold, your steward will wander around the inside and outside of your house when idle. This means they'll be hanging around when your house inevitably gets attacked by bandits, giants, or whatever else. This brings up a couple of mostly minor considerations:
I have found a good pattern is to pick up a mercenary, get them to the level cap, then leave them as steward. I also take the housecarl out until they hit their cap and let them go again, giving you a lvl 40 and lvl 50 character hanging around your house to help fend off bandits.