[RPG] How to help a new player feel safe taking risky actions in-game

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Being careful as a player is smart, especially in the beginning, when your PC could be felled by little more than a few stones to the head. But I am concerned that one of my players — a Barbarian, no less — is reflexively avoiding crumbs that would lead to a trail with experience (and treasure, and game development) upon it. They are good at sniffing danger… but then shrink from it.

If I do anything at all, I am of a mind to use a very light touch, as this is their first time playing, and the behavior is a hair away from being nothing more than healthy caution. On the other hand, I feel it doesn't serve a Barbarian well to be establishing a reputation in the party as too cautious. Or to "stand guard" over provisions while others scout out danger, etc.

How can I help new adventurers become comfortable taking risks? Or is this the kind of thing that will resolve itself?

This isn't causing any difficulty for the party or other players. I'm just concerned, and wondering if it indicates an underlying problem or a future problem.

Best Answer

  1. Talk to them. Explain what you are trying to do (in general), discuss barbarian traits, ask for and resolve concerns. Sometimes talking to new players will help put them at ease or encourage them to adapt.
  2. Show them by putting the rest of the party through similar situations, showing that these are safe risks to take.
  3. Ask the rest of the group to encourage/help the player to direct their character differently. Usually new players will try to go with the ideas of more experienced group members if presented.
  4. Create situations where the barbarian needs to be more aggressive. (I know, easier said then done).
  5. Don't worry about it. As DM you are god of the world. The player only has control over the actions of their character. If they want to play it safe, stopping them from doing so might distance them from the character and the game, pushing them to stop playing all together.

We use a combination of all of these with each of our new players. They are usually very grateful for the help.